Don't do life alone.
Curate your circle.
Find your BFF.
A safe space to find your new besties, or adventure buddies. Get matched with friends who actually get you, connect in a community that’s built around support, not judgement.
Let’s be honest…
Making friends as an adult is an extreme sport
Your varsity friends have moved to a different city, or country. Your work friends – are just work friends. Trying to break into a new clique is awkward and more often than not, comes with weird vibes. You don’t need another dry networking event. You need a friend who wants to hike Lion’s Head, try that new restaurant, or just vent about life over coffee.
BFF is here to help you meet your inner circle.
Just real people, curated events, and genuine friendships
We know the internet is a weird place. That’s why BFF is a gated community.
- No catfish: We check everyone who joins to maintain a safe community.
- Secure chats: We have strict community guidelines and active moderators to make sure everyone feels comfortable.
- Curated events: We host events in safe spaces so you can go from digital to real-life besties.
Good Things Take Time
We take community safety seriously
We thoughtfully bring new members into the community once a week. This pause allows us to verify every member with a Vibe Check call. That’s how we keep this space safe and welcoming for everyone.
Adulting is 1/10.
Doing it with your bestie is 100/10.
Choose Your Level
Join us to get invites to member-only meetups. Picnics, activities, and events where you can turn online connections into
real-life friendships.
Basic BFF
free
- BFF Community access
- Access to location, and interest-based chat spaces
- Get the community newsletter twice a month
- Vibe Check call (for safety)
BFF Premium
R49
Everything in Free, plus:
- Custom friend-matches twice a month
- Personalised icebreakers & conversation starters
- Friendship-building support
- Priority invites to community meetups
- Discounts on community meetup tickets
We’re Not just an App
We’re a Community
You won’t get lost in endless profiles or left to figure things out alone. We match you personally, introduce you thoughtfully, and support you as those new friendships grow. Because finding your people shouldn’t feel like a part-time job.
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the Vibe Check?
A quick call to verify you’re real, to keep our community safe. Every member goes through this, it’s how we make sure this stays a welcoming space for everyone.
What's the difference between Free and Premium?
Free members get access to the location-based chat spaces, and our newsletter every 2 weeks.
Premium members get all of that PLUS 3 custom friend-matches twice a month, conversation starters to break the ice, ongoing friendship-building tips, and access to the inner circle (a supportive space where we can be vulnerable, like any great friend group we can share what we’re going through to get friendly support or gentle accountability). Plus free access to community meetups, ticket discounts for paid activities, and priority invites to all community meetups & activities.
How does the friend-matching work?
If you’re a Premium member, we match you with 3 people every two weeks based on your interests, values, and vibe. You’ll get links to message them directly within the community (this protects everyone’s privacy – we never share your contact details), plus icebreakers and info about each person to make that first conversation easier. We don’t just introduce you and disappear, we also help you nurture your new friendships.
Can I try it for free first?
Absolutely! Start with free membership to explore the community, connect with peolpe in your city, and see if this is your vibe. Upgrade to Premium whenever you’re ready for hand-picked friend matches, and exclusive friend-making features.
Where are the meetups?
We host regular events in Cape Town, Johannesburg, and Pretoria (expanding to
more cities soon!). All members can join, but Premium members get free access to community meetups (which are picnics, hikes, etc.), ticket discounts for paid group activities (bowling, bungee jumping, pottery classes, etc.), and first dibs on all event access. Log in to see what’s coming up.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes, you can cancel your Premium membership whenever you need to. Your free membership and community access stays active.
I don't live in Cape Town, Joburg, or Pretoria. Can I still join?
Yes! Anyone from South Africa (and beyond) can join the community. You’ll have access to the online spaces and can connect with everyone to make new friends. When we host events in your area, you’ll be first to know.
How do I know this is safe?
Safety is our top priority. Every member is verified through a Vibe Check call before joining the community. Within the community there is a women-only space, monitored by real humans, and we take any safety concerns seriously. If something feels off, you can report it and we’ll handle it immediately.
Is this dating service?
No. This space is reserved entirely for platonic love. The energy here is different. It isn’t about swiping for a partner; it’s about finding your village, your people, and your next bestie. We are building the support system that we all deserve.
Your People Are Waiting
Real friendships don’t happen by accident
They happen in spaces designed for genuine connection, with people who are also looking for something real.
R49/month. Cancel anytime. No awkward commitments.
